The Leadership Lies We Tell Ourselves—And What It’s Costing Us
Leadership is about making decisions that shape teams, cultures, and outcomes. But what happens when those decisions are based on false assumptions rather than reality?
After working with thousands of healthcare leaders, I’ve seen a pattern—leaders who genuinely want to build strong, high-performing teams but unknowingly sabotage themselves by believing leadership myths that keep them stuck.
These lies aren’t just misconceptions—they’re costing organizations money, trust, and talent.
If you’re struggling with turnover, disengagement, or low morale, it’s time to take an honest look at the leadership narratives shaping your decisions.
Let’s break them down.
Lie #1: “We Don’t Have a Turnover Problem”
The Reality:
If your organization regularly loses great employees, turnover is a problem—whether or not it’s at crisis levels.
Too many healthcare leaders ignore early warning signs, assuming turnover is “just part of the industry.” But turnover is like a slow leak—by the time it floods your organization, it’s already done extensive damage.
The Hidden Costs of Turnover:
Silent disengagement—Employees stay but mentally check out.
Loss of top talent—High performers leave quietly before frustration builds.
Financial strain—Replacing a single employee costs anywhere from $40K to $300K.
What to Do Instead:
Monitor disengagement signs—Low energy, disengaged body language, and lack of input in meetings are red flags.
Check in with high performers—If your best people suddenly go quiet, pay attention.
Act early—Waiting for a retention crisis is a costly mistake.
Lie #2: “People Leave for More Money”
The Reality:
Compensation matters, but it’s rarely the main reason employees quit.
I’ve worked with leaders who counter-offered higher salaries—only to watch employees leave anyway. If someone loves their job, they won’t leave for an extra $5K.
What’s Really Driving Turnover?
Toxic work environments—No paycheck makes up for daily stress and dysfunction.
Disengaged leadership—Employees don’t leave companies; they leave managers.
Lack of recognition—Feeling invisible makes employees look elsewhere.
What to Do Instead:
Improve culture, not just paychecks. High salaries don’t fix toxic environments.
Invest in leadership development. Retention starts with strong leadership.
Recognize and support employees. Appreciation and psychological safety matter more than you think.
Lie #3: “We’ve Tried Everything”
The Reality:
Most organizations haven’t “tried everything”—they’ve recycled the same ideas in different packaging.
I’ve seen leaders repeat strategies that don’t work, expecting different results:
❌ More engagement surveys won’t fix disengagement.
❌ More town halls won’t restore trust in leadership.
❌ More “We appreciate you” emails won’t fix a culture issue.
What It’s Costing You:
Wasted time & effort—Implementing ineffective solutions drains resources.
Burned-out HR teams—Constantly reacting instead of preventing turnover.
Erosion of leadership credibility—Employees hear “We’re working on it” but see no change.
What to Do Instead:
Seek an outside perspective. Leaders are often too close to see the root issues.
Test new strategies. Repeating old tactics won’t yield new results.
Focus on execution. Change isn’t about ideas—it’s about action.
Lie #4: “Leadership is About Staying Strong”
The Reality:
True leadership isn’t about acting invincible—it’s about staying self-aware.
The best leaders I know admit mistakes, acknowledge challenges, and lead with honesty.
Your employees already know when something isn’t working—pretending otherwise doesn’t instill confidence. It breeds mistrust.
What’s at Stake?
Disengaged teams—Leaders who lack vulnerability create workplaces where employees don’t speak up.
Burnout & exhaustion—Ignoring problems doesn’t make them disappear.
A fear-driven culture—When honesty isn’t encouraged, innovation suffers.
What to Do Instead:
Model transparency. Admitting struggles builds trust, not weakness.
Encourage open dialogue. Employees should feel safe voicing concerns.
Set the tone for accountability. If you want a high-performing team, lead by example.
The Hard Truth: The Best Leaders Challenge Their Own Thinking
Leadership blind spots don’t disappear on their own. The best leaders don’t cling to old narratives—they challenge them.
They:
✅ Ask hard questions about what’s really happening inside their organizations.
✅ Seek outside perspectives to uncover blind spots.
✅ Take bold action instead of making minor tweaks.
Organizations that embrace leadership growth create cultures where:
✔️ Employees stay because they feel valued.
✔️ Teams are engaged and committed to the mission.
✔️ Turnover isn’t something to “fix”—it’s something that’s prevented.
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